Monday, October 4, 2010
Serial dater?
The new phrase of my life I am in is that dating stage. I found that I actually enjoy talking to men and getting to know what they can bring into a relationship. I'm not out looking for something serious, although I will not walk away from something if it becomes serious. I do however really enjoy the interesting people that I have had the pleasure of getting to know. But does this make me a serial dater? For the fact that I do talk to and date more than one person at a time? However, I do not sleep with any of them. My thought on it is that..If we talk and there seems to be a mutual interest of each other..Let's go on a date. If that one date turns out good..Then let's make it a second. Hang out, spend time together. Get to know one another. Now I'm pretty sure that this will lead to some very interesting encounters. Which in turn will give me something to write about. I have a date planned for Friday night. For now we will call him dater "B". We have been talking for a few weeks and he seems to be interested in me, and I will admit the interest is returned. I am not sure to what extent it is returned but I guess that is what this date will unfold. He has 6 tattooes..I do love me a man who has tattoes. Something about a man with them is just..so sexy. Call me silly but hey..To each their own. So Friday night we are going to dinner. Which means when I get in Friday night after dinner I will be getting on and posting what my date was like. I'll be looking for feedback! Now there is a dater "M" although I am not sure I can call him dater "M"..That story is a bit more complicated and I will share that story at another date and time. I was reading a self help book about dating yourself, to get to know what you like, to get to know you really. The lady who wrote it said she dated herself for a year. Really just dated to get to know what it was she found that she liked in a guy. What interested her. What she liked, what she didn't like. Things like that. She said she set a year goal that she would date for a year and then look back on it. I, however, do not see the importance of setting a time frame. I feel that I will date, I won't sleep around with anyone, but I will date and if something becomes serious than it does. My intentions are not to go out and date looking for the one but more to date and see what is out there. Feel things out a bit if you get what I mean. So I do believe Friday night will be interesting. He even wears glasses..which is oddly sexy as well..
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First, glasses are sexy. Second, nothing wrong with serial dating. It can be wonderful if done correctly. :-)
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lol I agree! I plan on being careful about it, and at the sametime, If I meet someone who the interest is there then I'll let it go wherever!
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